Busy busy busy...ituler favourite word saya, semenjak 2 menjak nih...and my 2nd favourite word, penat penat penat....aduhai sungguh penat ya amat. Since last week, we I packed nearly 30 boxes of household stuff, did it in a few days time during night time since I have to be in the office during the day. Hubby is very busy with his work, most of the time on the phone trying to close some deals before year ends. At one point of time, I was pissed off tired, looking at the wrappers and boxes and I told myself, this is going to be the last ever moving and packing that we've to endure. Imagine with only a kid, we have plenty of stuff, what about 4 kids? hahah...I guess then we have to hire packers and movers. The day came, the movers came and swiped clean my house, all boxes gone, appliances and such but my body ache remains.Semalam pergi MPPJ, mintak approval for house renovation. Itu lagi satu hal, setengah hari dah habis kat sana, macam2 kena buat, dah isi borang, nak kena photostat mcm2, nasib baik semua ada termasuklah gambar rumah. Lepas tuh, one portion of the renovation tu mcm tak diluluskan, walhal jiran yg buat same kind of renovation dah pulak diluluskan. Kta punya pulak siap suruh kita hire draftsman/architect to do blueprint, banyak songeh betuiii...lepastu senangjer hubby ckp kat diorag, mcm mana neighbour saya dah lulus, awak tak boleh nak luluskan saya punya, jiran saya pun bukannya ada buat blueprint, next you guess...tuhan permudahkan urusan kami, alhamdulillah. Rupa2nya jiranku beri duit kopi :P boringkan dengar org melayu senang jer nak terima duit kopi dan yg paling byk is org2 gomen...bila cete benda2 gini kat pak mentua, dia mesti marah giler. Dia pun org gomen gak dan dia pun 3 kali dah heret gomen pie court dan menang kes sebab gomen salah laku. Ampun tok nenek kalu org gomen baca hehehe...bila cete mcm nie, teringat gak ada org gomen mintak duit nak pie umrah kalau nak luluskan something...ish ish ish...nauzubillah. And believe it or not, orang Saudi pun dah start jadi mcm org kita....ehh itu story lain skit...OK, ok ok...so pokoknya, I'm darn tired, I have splitting headaches, I need a masseur! Can you be my masseur? except you, Bert! muahahah
Psstttt..psssttttt...I want to tell you guys something tapi maluuuuuu.....Janji jangan cakap kat orang lain? Janji tau? Cakaplah janji...cakap kuat-kuat so that I can hear you. J.A.N.J.I. Maybe I should draft an agreement letter for you guys to sign before I spill the beans. Macam mana tu? Kalau dah tahu tu, jangan cerita kat orang lain tau, bukannya apa, takut nanti ramai pulak yang terperanjat dan akan menyesakkan lagi keadaan. Kita tak naklah orang lain terover dengan cerita ini, worse come to worse, ramai pulak yg tak nak gie kerja dan semua nak set appointment nak jumpa kita. Tak maulah keadaan jadi havoc, tak pasal2 negara kacau bilau, camna tu? Oklah, oklah, korang nie musti dah boring giler dan kita pun memang dah tak sabar nak bagi tau....camnie sajelah baca yg kat bawah nie, kita kasik kaler hijau, so pandai2lah ekk korang baca....Kitakan dah beruban! Semalam kita terserempak dgn uban pertama kita yg panjangnya 3 inci. Terkezut you. Itu jerlah cete yg kita nak bagitau. jgn mareeeeee......korang dah beruban ker belum?
Ishhh, lama sangatlah modblog down, harap2 jgnlah ada benda lain pulak yg hilang bila dia up nanti.Anyway, pagi semalam, me and hubby dok sembang2 pasal dugaan yang akan mendatang bila kita tua nanti. Ceritanya bermula begini, hubby ada dengar cerita pasal sorang pakcik yang dia kenal, dah tua dah around 72yrs old, selalu sakit2, biasalah sakit org tua, diabetic, hbp, athritis. Kesian sungguh bila dengar cerita pasal pakcik nie, dia dulu hidup senang coz both of them, himself and his wife held top positions in MNC companies tapi selepas dia retire, hidup dia semakin merana, anak2 tak kisah sgt pasal bapak dia, isteri dia pulak asyik dok pot pet pot pet kat dia, ada jer yg dia tak puas hati sampaikan pernah kena halau dari rumah...dan macam2 lagilah ceritanya..malaslak nak elaborate, tapi jadikanlah cerita nie sebagai pengajaran dan teladan buat semua.
So, me and hubby pun cakaplah pasal hari2 tua kita nie hopefully we will not be tested in such a way and we will not be tested that we could not bring ourselves together, mudah-mudahan. Sebenarnya, bila dah ada anak, suami isteri akan diduga dari anak2 kecil hinggalah dewasa, banyak yg perlu difikirkan, banyak yg perlu dipertimbangkan, memang bukan mudah. Kita akan diduga dari setiap aspek dan dari setiap penjuru. Bila anak2 kecik, kita diuji bila anak2 sakit, bila sekolah anak2 periksa, kita yg gundah gulana, bila masuk Uni, kita terlebih presure macam kita lak yg nak ambik exam, bila dah habis, risau anak dpt keja ker atau tak, bila anak ada boyfriend or girlfriend, kita lagi sakit kepala sampai nak migraine, taklehlah asyik nak bertenet jer, habistu kahwin? Bila dah kahwin, bila anak tak bahagia, kita pun tumpang merana, lepas tu kita pulak diduga dgn kelakuan menantu masing2. Bila diingatkan susahnya menjadi hamba allah, astagfirullah...sesungguhnya allah menjamin nikmat tak terhingga utk hambanya atas segala rintangan dan dugaan yg beliau turunkan. semoga allah permudahkanlah segalanya bagi keluargaku, insyallah. Amin.
